The Flagship
The Conversation Deck
100 questions across 10 categories that surface the discussions most couples avoid until it's too late. Not a quiz. The conversation you needed to have before you said yes.
What's inside
Ten categories. One honest hour at a time.
The deck moves from lighter to deeper on purpose — trust builds before the hardest questions arrive.
- Who You Are
- How You Live
- What Interests You
- How You Experience Joy
- How You Communicate
- How You Relate to People
- What You Believe Matters
- What Drives You
- Where You Come From
- Where You're Going
Each card pairs its question with a brief note on what the answer helps you understand — so every conversation has a purpose.
“These are the questions we used. Every one of them earned its place in a real conversation, in a real relationship, before it earned a card.”The post-it note this deck grew from →
Questions
Deck questions, answered
What exactly is the FBF Conversation Deck?
A digital deck of 100 conversation cards across 10 categories — from Who You Are and How You Communicate to Where You Come From and Where You're Going. Each card pairs a question with a brief note on what the answer helps you understand. It's not a quiz and there are no scores: the conversation is the product.
Do I need an app or an account?
No app, no account, no friction. The deck lives entirely in your browser — open it on your phone or computer, enter the access code you receive after purchase, and start immediately. Shuffle the full deck, filter by category, or swipe one card at a time. Works on iPhone, Android, Mac, and PC.
How is it different from free question lists online?
These are the questions Cam and Kunbi actually used before committing — refined into a sequence that builds from lighter to deeper, so trust grows before the hardest questions arrive. Free lists give you questions; the deck gives you an order, a pace, and a reason to keep going.
Do we need to be a couple to use it?
No — the deck is built for intentional dating at any depth: just getting to know someone, a few months in and wanting to go deeper before big decisions, or recently single and preparing for the relationship you actually want. Committed couples use it too; the questions don't expire.
How much does it cost and how do I get it?
The deck is $17 as a one-time purchase through Gumroad. You get access immediately after checkout — no subscription, no upsell inside the deck.
We took the Mirror Exercise. Is the deck the next step?
Yes — that's the intended path. The Mirror Exercise shows you your own gaps privately. The deck turns that self-knowledge into a shared conversation with the person you're building with.