The most honest 30 minutes you'll spend on your love life. Part one builds your dream person. Part two asks who you actually are — with questions you haven't seen before. The gap only reveals itself at the end.
Part one asks what you want in a partner. Part two is a completely different set of questions about who you actually are — you won't see part one again until your results. Answer both parts as honestly as you can. Nobody sees this but you.
On dealbreakers: Each category gives you one flag — the single quality you truly cannot build a life without. Not aspirational. Not ideal. The one real non-negotiable. Choose carefully.
Take your time on part two. The questions are designed to make you think, not just react. There's no right answer — only an honest one.
Rate how important each quality is to you in a partner. Be honest about what you actually want — not what you think you should want. Mark one dealbreaker per category.
These are different questions — not a repeat of part one. Answer each one based on how you actually show up in life today. Each slider is labelled to match the question being asked. Your part one answers are waiting in your results.
The qualities you flagged as non-negotiable. Where you see a significant gap, that's your most urgent growth work.
How closely your self-assessment matches your dream across each area of life.
Every question pair — what you dreamed on the left, what you answered about yourself on the right. The gap score shows the distance between the two.
The FBF Conversation Deck gives you and a potential partner 100 questions to surface alignment before you're too attached to see clearly.
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