Know Yourself First

The Mirror
Exercise

Two honest questions. One revealing answer. Discover who you're dreaming of — and whether you're ready to be that person's match.

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Build your dream
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Hold up the mirror
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Receive your report

This isn't a wish list.
It's a revelation.

Most people have never been honest about what they actually want in a partner — or honest about whether they bring what they're looking for. This exercise asks both questions. Answer as truthfully as you can. Nobody sees this but you.

Rate each quality from 1–5 stars based on how important it is to you, or how strongly it describes you. There are no right answers — only honest ones.
Part 1 — The Dream Part 2 — The Mirror

Who is your
dream person?

Rate how important each quality is to you in a partner. Be honest — not aspirational.

Part 1 — The Dream Part 2 — The Mirror

Are you that
person's match?

Now rate yourself on the same qualities. How strongly does each one describe who you are today — not who you're working toward. Who you are right now.

The Mirror
Reveals

alignment

Your growth opportunities

Close the gap with the right person.

The FBF Conversation Deck gives you 100 questions to surface real alignment before you're too attached to see clearly. The same questions Cam and Kunbi used before they built their foundation.

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